went with the magna flow, same as beerman. I will say its exactly what I was looking for. and his well done video still doesn't do justice you can tell the lows don't come through at all because in person its dramatically different.
at idle outside car---TWICE as loud at idle outside the car, way deeper tone. my lady can finally hear it pull in the garage.
inside the car at idle ------slightly louder than stock, deeper.
part throttle and cruising in the car-----zero drone. I mean less than stock. I found one spot 54-55 in 8th gear that has the same drone as stock system but a bit deeper. in general deep and burbly not farty like the stock system.
WOT inside the car------- Awesome DEEP, slightly louder than stock and a lot meaner, no more windy raspy sound, and and the timing retard between shifts it went from a LITERAL fart to what now sounds like a BARK. its great. best part, when you let off the throttle you can truly hear some decomp noises. its no lambo but a couple pops as the rpm goes down is way better than the total absence with the stock system. two thumbs up.
Part Throttle outside the car-----louder than stock by 20 % , deeper and more rich by 100%. exactly what I wanted.
now for the downsides, I had to pull up some plastic underbody pieces to avoid the mufflers, and the stock hanger on the driver side closest to the cat is touching the resonator, had 1/8 clearance to begin with but it settled to 1/16 and rattles slightly so ill need to tinker with it, Also note you will have to grind off the weld spots on your stock exhaust to reuse the tips, not hard at all with angle grinder or even a Dremel. other than that its bolt on.